Red flags in a first message
What the first few messages tell you, and the single request that should end a conversation.
How much to share, and when
Surnames, workplaces, photos — how much to share, and the order to share it in.
Meeting for the first time
Where to meet, who should know, and what not to bring.
What a verified profile actually proves
Which checks exist, what each one catches, and — just as important — what none of them catch.
Looking for a donor? Read this first
The patterns that should end a conversation, and why the most common problem is not malice but vagueness.